31st May 2020
On this day, Tom shared some very sad news with us all.

Written by Tom Burns, President Age Concern Marbella-San Pedro

“This is one of the most difficult messages I have ever written and, as I write this message, I am overwhelmed with grief. After a very brief illness, my friend and mentor Stephen Brooksbank passed away peacefully in hospital this morning, on 31st May.

Stephen died, surrounded by members of his family and friends. Sadly, some of his closest relatives were unable to be with him due to the Pandemic. I was privileged to have known Stephen for a number of years and he was instrumental in setting up our Branch of Age Concern for Marbella and San Pedro. He taught us all so much about helping the elderly expats in our community. Many people reading this will have known Stephen well and, like me, will have witnessed the many kind things he did for so many less fortunate people in our community. I never knew him to refuse involvement in seeking solutions to problems, which, at times, seemed intractable. Most importantly, Stephen never sought recognition or thanks, his modesty was one of his most attractive features.

Stephen was a deeply religious man who led an exemplary life, he shared with me his simple belief in “Love Thy Neighbour”. He will be deeply missed by many and remembered with great love and affection.

I know you will join me in an expression of deep sadness and express sympathy to Stephen’s family.

When his daughter and family were able to travel to Spain, on 7 th July, we arranged a Memorial event at the Alabardero Beach Club on the paseo at San Pedro, which Stephen so loved. And together with giving thanks for his life, the occasion allowed his many friends to express their love and share memories of a remarkable man.

Here are some photos of the occasion.